He was so easygoing and quiet his first 3 weeks of life (probably because he was still in that super sleepy stage) but then he decided he didn't particularly care for life outside the womb and has been fussy ever since. The girls were such easygoing babies (Amelia was sleeping through the night at this point) so this has been a harder transition. (Sorry Oliver, but so far you're not giving boys a very good image around here.) He does sleep well at night and usually goes right back to sleep after his middle-of-the-night feedings. And he is always happy (sleeping) when he's out in the stroller or car seat.
One of the hardest parts (for me anyway) has been his troubles with reflux. He screams during many feedings which is so sad to see (and makes it extremely difficult to nurse discreetly in public). The doctor put him on zantac and we did see some improvement, but it's still a struggle.
Phrases often heard by his sisters:
"It seems like Oliver is only happy when he's sleeping."
"Oliver is such a cry baby."
"Do you think Oliver will cry for the rest of his life?"
"Oliver is SOOOOOO cute."
"MOM, help Oliver. He's crying again."
"Oliver needs his fire." (Elsa's word for pacifier)
"Oliver smiled at me!!!!"
As if to make up for the fussiness and show us that deep down, he really is a happy baby, Oliver gave us his first real smiles very early, just before he was 4 weeks old. And he continues to give us lots of smiles every day. When he's not crying.
(None of these pictures are superb due to poor lighting and attempts to hold the camera while trying to provoke smiles, but you get the idea.)
(Captured a sneeze instead of a smile.)
(Smiling takes a lot of concentration.)
Okay. We think he's pretty great and are so happy he's part of our family now.
OH!! He is so cute!
ReplyDeleteSorry about the reflux. If you want to talk....let me know. :)
ReplyDeleteSo adorable! Hopefully his smiles makes the crying more tolerable. And I hope he doesn't spoil to boys-they really are great!
ReplyDeleteGrace was a really fussy baby. It lasted for about 3 months. I feel your pain and I hope he is better sooner rather than later. He is such a doll and love the cute way the girls are with him.
ReplyDeleteso sorry if he has reflux. both mine did and i am just preparing for this one that she will too. good luck. zantac did seem to help. his cuteness does make up for it though. hopefully the reflux is short lived.
ReplyDelete"Oliver needs his fire" - that is hilarious! It looks like you guys had a wonderful Christmas holiday. James has watched your video of Christmas morning three times now, he loves it. And we especially loved Elsa'a wise man hat.
ReplyDelete